User Information |
| User Name: | Xaher |
| Sex | Male |
| Age | 31 - 40 years |
| Profession | Doctor |
| Salary | $10,000 - $50,000 |
| Orientation | Gay |
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| Country of Birth | Pakistan (Islamic Republic of) |
| Country of Residence | Pakistan (Islamic Republic of) |
| Religion at Birth | Muslim |
| Practicing Religion | Atheist |
| Status at Birth | Middle Class |
| Status Currently | Middle Class |
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User's Background Information |
| I was born to a muslim father and a zoraostrian mother in the city of Quetta but being an army brat, lived all over the country . My parents are moderate muslims, with left leanings. Growing up, there were core social and religious issues that I could not reconcile with intuitive human values... and thus began a soul searching that has led me to wherever I am... and it is a good, good place!
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Opinions Expressed by User for the following Questions |
What is your opinion on God ? religion ?
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| God is a theoretical construct and lies outside the realm of knowledge. There is No evidence to support a belief in the existence of such a being. Belief in god is irrational and leads to massive violations of human rights. |
What is your opinion on love ? sex ? marriage ?
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| Love is also a theoretical construct. We experience it according to whatever social conditioning we have received growing up.
Sex is a the main driving force of a society and sexual liberation is an indicator of how liberated any society is.
Marriage is a social contract that also serves to satisfy romantic notions of forever after. |
Are you happy ? Why or why not? How do you think a person can be happy ?
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| I am very happy. I have a home, a wonderful partner, a supportive family and a career with prospects.
A person can be happy by having aspirations that reflect realism. Objectivity and realism leads to happiness. |
If you think you are wealthy ? what made you this wealth ? if you are not wealthy, what kept you back ?
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| I am not wealthy. |
What is your opinion on death ?
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| Death is the end of individual consciousness. We are taught to mystify and fear it. Death will come, that knowledge is absolute, then why not just grow up learning to accept this inevitability? |
What do you think is the most efficient way to make money ?
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| If I knew that I would be wealthy, now wouldn't I? |
What is THE MOST important thing to you in your life ? Why ?
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| My ability to maintain a semblance of balance in my subjective world. It helps me to maintain mental order, avoid stress and prioritize my needs and responsibilities. |
If you had to pass on advise to your kids about how to live life, what would that be ?
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| Revere life in all its forms. Make your own choices and defend the other person's right to make their choices. Question everything, be critical and maintain positivity. |
Is a person in control of his/her destiny ? Why or why not ?
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| To a very large extent yes, a person is in control of his/her destiny. Our choices will define where we end up. Unexpected things will happen, what matters is how we react to them and how they affect our future course of action. |
Do you think it would be helpful for a person to read what you have said ? Why or why not ?
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| For some it would be very helpful. For others, who are new on the road to self-discovery, my thoughts might be very unnerving because removing emotional subjectivity for critical analysis is not a very comfortable place to be in for most people. |
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