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What is your opinion on love ? sex ? marriage ?
Are you happy ? Why or why not? How do you think a person can be happy ?
If you think you are wealthy ? what made you this wealth ? if you are not wealthy, what kept you back ?
What is your opinion on death ?
What do you think is the most efficient way to make money ?
What is THE MOST important thing to you in your life ? Why ?
If you had to pass on advise to your kids about how to live life, what would that be ?
Is a person in control of his/her destiny ? Why or why not ?
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Is a person in control of his/her destiny ? Why or why not ?

Avery
We are in control of our own destiny. When it comes to things that are out of our control, we have choices and our choices reflect who we are. ... View More...
keshaw
Other topic where I have a lot to talk and discuss. In one sense, yes a person is in control of his/her destiny. In other sense, no he is not. Actually, we create our destiny and once it is created, it may or may not be changed by our present actions. Whe... View More...
Kabeer
No. Too many things happen to a person by chance.... View More...
Naseem_S
Yes a person is definitely in control of their destiny. I believe that duas can change the way you accept the obstacles in life.... View More...
cherie
No, destiny is like walking in the dark. I can also described it as walking in an unknown way. Only God can control our destiny. We can plan it as we want but if God does not allow us, we cannot do anything.... View More...
Hirudatt Patel
No, destiny is not under your control. Your destiny depends on your deeds and these deeds are long collected.... View More...
faylasooph
The question is worded incorrectly. Destiny by its definition means you don't have control over it. It should say, "is a person in control of their future." And to that question I'd say it's a mix of free will and destiny. Simply, without extending this i... View More...
Ramya
You are in control of your destiny to a certain extent since you have the choice to handle situations the way you want to for the most part like staying healthy, doing well in school, handling relationships and reacting to situations are all under your co... View More...
Melanie
Yes and no (I know that may seem like a copout) but YES, if you believe something strongly enough it will come true example I want to be an astronaut some day. Through hard work and dogged persistence, it will happen. And NO, if for example you have a car... View More...
Philo
Yes. No one controls where they came from. But you have total control of where you're going. No matter what you may believe.... View More...
Peaceful n Free
A person has to work hard for his or her destiny however the control is in God's hands. We can only try but the outcome comes from God.... View More...
Azeez
If destiny means life outcomes, then what you sow directly and indirectly affects greater than 50% of what you reap. So if you cannot harvest from what you've sown, you still come out ahead, even if you get less than 50%. Moral - Sow multiple seeds in m... View More...
JD
Yes, I truly believe we have free will.... View More...
graziq
No. I don't think a person is in control of his/her destiny. Your hard work can change your destiny. ... View More...
msingh
No I don't think so. Destiny changes according to your efforts which you put in. ... View More...
ajitsingh
Tough question!! Sometimes yes and sometimes absolutely no. I have experienced it.... View More...
bsingh
I don't think so. I have seen many friends of mine who despite of there physical disabilities they continued doing practise and became successful. ... View More...
pkumr
No and Yes. Sometimes destiny plays a crucial role. And sometimes it has got nothing to do with. Most of the times hard work pays instead of destiny. ... View More...
ap123
No. A person is not in control of his/her destiny. He himself is responsible for his right and wrong-doings and there is nothing relating to destiny or something else.... View More...
Hussein
Yes, it controls you. But it doesn’t mean you can’t change it. You can do so. But if you will stop working for yourself then your destiny will make what is decide for you and not what you want to be.... View More...
Rachel
Somewhat. Some things in our lives cannot be changed, we cannot have everything we wish for, but yes, we do have a lot of control despite this. ... View More...
sergio
I think it doesn’t control us. If we know that what we get in our life is due to our choice then how can we say that it is controlling us?... View More...
sanj
Only one thing which is going to happen to everyone and which is written in our destiny is death. Rest all the things keeps on changing.... View More...
joao
Yes. Almost. But we can change at any point of time with all our hard work. ... View More...
Cedar
No I dont think destiny controls us. Our labor controls our destiny. ... View More...
jhonp
No. I think god decides the direction not the distance. Its totally upon us to decide how far we need to go.... View More...
milos
I think so. In spite of so much labor and so many tries i was not successful and thus think it was not in my destiny. Destiny controlled me.... View More...
skc
No. i don't think so. Sachin is God of cricket because he wanted to be that and thus made himself. It was not that it was written in his destiny. This is why i am his biggest fan.... View More...
risto
No, I don't think. As i said a person destiny is decided by his actions. And it changes with each and every action.... View More...
paol
No. A person is not in control of his/her destiny. You can change it at any moment.... View More...
birg
No. Labor can destiny. These are just the words coined by the people who dont like to work. ... View More...
Gamle
Yes a person is in control of his/her destiny. Reason is very simple. Things are already decide by you which is best for you. All you need is to do the work. Without work nothing will happen. ... View More...
eckhard
No a person is not in control of his destiny. Why because this is a thing which keeps on changing in accordance with your hard work put up by you. ... View More...
ateng
No, definitely not. How can a thing which doesn't exist can control anybody.... View More...
stine
No. I just know that since it does not control me it doesn't control anybody.... View More...
wakia
No. I really don't think so that there is something like destiny. one should never leave hope thinking it's not in this destiny.... View More...
chia
No, destiny is decide by the deeds done which the people do in their life time. Before that no one is Knowing what will be happening with him in future.... View More...
Dong
Yeah.I believe that work hard will change your life.... View More...
beatg
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. I have seen so many persons doing most amazing things only with hard work. ... View More...
Hong
Sure.Because I believe,even if there is a bit of hope,for a brave man doing that unremitting,you will be succeed.... View More...
atan
Yes a person is in control of his/her destiny. Everything has been planned already by god.... View More...
khajah
Yes a person is in control of his/her destiny. Your destiny is predefined but that should not stop you from doing hard labor. ... View More...
davidn
A person is not in control of his/her destiny. Actually destiny has nothing to do with your life. You are responsible for what you make your life into.... View More...
pim
Yes a person is in control of his/her destiny. I was destined to be a plumber therefore I am. ... View More...
hajer
No a person us not in control of his/her destiny. We are capable of handling and controlling it. ... View More...
brisco
Yes upto an extent. Sometimes you cannot change it. It is the god's wish. Sometimes it is up to you to change it.... View More...
khati
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. If we are not satisfied with our destiny we can change it by ourselves. ... View More...
tyrp
Yes. It is predetermined. Everything is already fixed. I believe in that.... View More...
hamdi
Yes a person is control in his/her destiny. The reason is very simple. We will get only what we deserve. ... View More...
Mariacd
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. Hard work can always change your destiny. ... View More...
scadu
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. It can be changed for sure. ... View More...
bharay
No. Destiny can be changed by hard work. This is a fact. ... View More...
marc
No a person is never in control of his/her destiny. Labor can change one's destiny. ... View More...
abel
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. I can be changed. ... View More...
anah
No I don’t think that destiny controls you. If you will accept the things happening with you that will happen for sure but if you will not accept it, then it will be according to your wish.... View More...
juan
Destiny does not control you. It cannot control you because there is nothing like destiny. When you know that you have something because you wanted that and you worked for that, then how can you give its credit to destiny.... View More...
joset
Destiny does exist. I was never successful in what I wanted to do. And now that I am here I think it was destiny which brought me here. I never thought that someday I will be doing this type of job.... View More...
issa
No. Of course not. Destiny is volatile. It depends upon your hard work. ... View More...
Wind
It isn't destiny that in your control.That's ability.We never know the real destiny.A foreign saying:God doesn't allow that the common pepole speculate about the future.... View More...
North0pole
Destiny as a word means something foretold and certain. Thus we don't have a say on it. I don't believe in destiny. God has only created the laws of physics but no storyline, destiny. I think we can influence our future with our own decisions.... View More...
billh
Destiny will control you all the time. But if there is something which you desperately want to change, you may try so by working for that very much. It may or may not change but if you will not try it will not change for sure.... View More...
ansari
I think it controls us. This is something which god decides. His decision can be changed by only his wish. No matter how hard you try but if he doesn’t want you to have something you will never have and there are many example of this also.... View More...
frank
Destiny does not control us and I am the best example of this. I have never left hope and always worked with same dedication and here I am a successful businessman. If you will leave your life on others then they will decide so take the control yourself.... View More...
cvild
Destiny won’t control you if you will not want it to control you. Live your life and you will see that it gets affected by decision you are taking and not because it was meant to be like that.... View More...
martin
Destiny is not what makes you. I choose to study. If earning was my first priority, then I should have been doing a business rather than a researcher.... View More...
sma
Destiny is present. I never wanted to be like this. Someone decided that I have to be like this. And so I am. That means destiny is there in reality.... View More...
clav
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. One can change it through hard work. ... View More...
gali
Yes I believe in it. Allah decides our destiny. And he knows best what we deserve. ... View More...
Quantum-Mikechanic
Yes. Through the decisions they make.... View More...
jeff
60% control. 40% luck.... View More...
Seva
Control of one's destiny is important.But at first you need to know what's your destiny.People always think that persistence is right.But sometime that's giving up.... View More...
rtchi
No. I don't believe in destiny. Destiny is for lazy ones. You can change it any point of time. ... View More...
eyou
Yes up to an extent. The moment you take birth some set of things are already decided for you and those cant change unless you try hard and harder. ... View More...
ndault
Yes a person is in control of his/her destiny. Everything is decided already and you cannot change that. ... View More...
har
Destiny does not control us. if I had not tried to make my business this much then I don’t think it would have been here just because it was in my destiny. I tried and so I made it. In this way you can also make your destiny.... View More...
thmelcher
Destiny may affect you but only when you will want it to affect you. If you will leave everything on fate then you will be controlled by your destiny. So try to make your destiny by deciding your own fate.... View More...
ken
I don’t think so. As I said we can always change our destiny according to our will. I have also heard that our destiny changes with every action so when it changes with “OUR” every action then how it is fixed.... View More...
Siva
You always ought to have the initiative.Destiny is no exception.So you ought to control your destiny.Don't just be a kind-hearted but foolish man.Become a concernful man.... View More...
zatan12
Ya every person is ruled by his or her destiny. The person will get whatever his destiny will give him. Simply he or she will be ruled by his destiny. ... View More...
mehdi
Yes destiny is always decided. But its not that you cannot deviate from that. For me it was decided that i have to serve my country. And I did so. If I wanted to do something else then I think I would have been doing that.... View More...
kima
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. Destiny can be changed according to your will. ... View More...
shaq
No, if today you want to be an engineer then only you can be an engineer otherwise you would be something else. That will also be something you decided. You are making your own destiny. And no one can change it or decide your destiny.... View More...
sarmed
Destiny is according to what you want to make. My students chose different field and they are working according to their choice. Its not that anyone has decided it for them.... View More...
srana
Destiny will never control you. You will be controlling your destiny. You can also try that by wishing for something and then working for it to get. You will get that and the one you didn’t worked you will not get.... View More...
Ason21
Ya i think that if a person has to get something in his life he is gonna get that if not that he'll have to fight hard to change his destiny. he may get that but for that he need to toil harder..... View More...
sattar
Yes. To an extent. Everything is decided already. You cant get more than that. ... View More...
aamir
Yes a person is in control of his/her destiny. If not fully then up to an extent for sure. ... View More...
chila
I don't really think so. You know that you don't have a thing because you have not made that much effort for that thing. It is never that it was not in your destiny.... View More...
ecj
Obviously not, because there's nothing like destiny. a person becomes according to the works he did. If he ignored something he will not have that. If he works for something he will have that.... View More...
rayan
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. It can be changed at any point of time. ... View More...
tuis
Yes. A person is in control of his/her destiny. Because Allah determines it and he knows better than you that how much you deserve. ... View More...
philip
No. A person is not in control of his destiny. You can change it. People change it if they will to. ... View More...
hitm
Yes a bit. Destiny decides things for us and we are only able to change it slightly. ... View More...
hjuv
Destiny does control us. You can change your destiny to an extent but not completely. This is what I observed. There are people who though try very hard but don’t become what they want.... View More...
vthm
I have only heard about destiny. But never heard of anyone who became very rich because of their destiny. It was their efforts which made them rich and famous and even successful.... View More...
Qiang
A person in control of his destiny is necessary.But we also need to live for the now.And never give up our dream.... View More...
hchrt
Destiny does not control us. if we are very rich we say it our hard work. But if we are not then we say it as our destiny. But in actual it is some mistakes we made in our previous times.... View More...
hali
Destiny does control us somehow. It’s a god decision and thus we may modify it but then cannot change it completely. Changing a god decision is also in God’s hand.... View More...
cjde
I don’t think that destiny controls us. If today I want to be a doctor then only I can be a doctor and if want to be something else I will be that. Our destiny changes every day.... View More...
gorkha
Destiny does not control us. If I had thought of becoming an engineer, I had been that and not what I am now. Depending on what you want your destiny keeps on changing.... View More...
lotu
I don’t believe in destiny at all. Something may be decided for us but then that doesn’t mean that we cannot get something else than that. If we work hard for what we wish for then we can surely have that thing.... View More...
chiy
Destiny does control us somehow. But still I think we can change it. If others can be very rich all from their hard work so others can also change it.... View More...
anges
No not at all. It depends upon you as how and when you want to change your destiny. ... View More...
ju
Partially yes. He/she is in control of destiny up to an extent. You will get only that much which has been fixed by the lord.... View More...
Jun
Certainly a person in control his destiny is very important.But I think luck is very important too.In my dictionary,lucy and work hard means success.... View More...
jessni
Yes a bit. There is a limit of everything. You will only get up to that limit no matter how much you try for that. ... View More...
rud
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. It depends on us as which path to take and which one to leave. That makes the difference. ... View More...
marek
I don’t believe in destiny at all. This is a shield for lazy ones. Work hard and make the your future. ... View More...
kayt
It may be said that it controls us but not completely. Its is we who has the control. Your action makes you and your destiny. ... View More...
sctre
Destiny will not control us if you don’t want. No one can just get what he wants by simply sitting at his comfort zone. He will have to do a little labor and in that way he can get what he want and so will his destiny change.... View More...
Wenjun
I hope I can control my destiny.But it's so hard to a woman.There is too much restrictions form social.So I just can do my best.... View More...
Ming
Sure.A person can't in control of his destiny is a loser.Generally speaking,a good thing always is a difficult thing.You need to prevail the difficulty.... View More...
Grecko
No, Nothing is kept in destiny. Its all what we make it. Do well in present future is secured. ... View More...
edukala
No I don't think a person is in control of his destiny. The control lies in our hand and it depends when are we ready to control it.... View More...
Broyalt
No, I don't think so that a person is controlled by his or her destiny. Though god decides our luck but then without trying any work we cannot get success or failure. We can change our luck also by trying a bit harder. ... View More...
sebasto
No, destiny doesn't control us. I am responsible for everything that is with me or happening with me. There is no one in my knowledge who is writing our destiny. Its all what we make it. ... View More...
Cai
We ought to control our destiny.Because as a normal person,you needn't always control your destiny.I mean the things influence your life are not very much.So if you meet these things,control it to a good result.... View More...
ashley
I don’t know about others but this is something which never affected my life and what I am now is my decision. I personally don’t believe in destiny as this was not present in my case.... View More...
jquinn
Destiny is decided. God never wants bad of his followers and he only decides what should be done by a person. If the person follows it he is happy and if he try to challenge it he always faces problems in life.... View More...
trish
Destiny may be present but I think it only affects those who are not having the power to change it. It may be decided but this is also true that we can change it in the way we want it to be.... View More...
Lan
I never think about that so far.Cause the life can't give me the time to think about it.Difficulty one by one.I have to control my destiny.I always do like that.... View More...
saun889
Does anyone knows what is it ?? I dont ... ... View More...
moran23
Destiny..I dont believe in it, because I myself has changed my destiny and today I am a good doctor who is serving the nation in the best possible way.... View More...
zuke354
Yes I feel so but a man with lots of courage and hard work can change it easily. You just need to do it in the proper way and the result will be in your favor.... View More...
asad00
Yes I feel so . According to me a person gets something only that much which is written in his destiny. ... View More...
isunny12
Destiny, I will say we can change it with our own power of hard work.... View More...
liza90
Yes. I believe in Destiny. But not much.True that person will get something that is in their destiny. But on the other hand hard work is the only factor through which you can change your destiny.... View More...
kali12
A person is in control of his destiny because i think what ever he has to gain in his life he will get that maybe a bit late but he will have it in his life any how. ... View More...
huier
Although it's hard,one person must in control his destiny.Now I am not satisfied with my present job.So I am trying find another one.I will be happy only when I will found a new job.... View More...
sam123
Yes a bit.. We will have to face whatever we are to.. So i dont think someone can control destiny. It controls us.... View More...
dhgyt
No. Not at all. One is not in control of his/her destiny. Its all we who are responsible for who we are. ... View More...
aarpa
Yes and no. If you are laborious than it wont control you and if you are not, it will surely. ... View More...
cress
No a person is not in his/her destiny. I will change with your labor. ... View More...
trib
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. You will have to make your own destiny. ... View More...
Yu
Certainly a person must in control of his destiny.Only when you in control of your destiny, you can do the things that you really liked.... View More...
ptiwari
Destiny does control us. When we are born our destiny is written and we can never change is according to our choice. Since its god choice and so it is just to accepted ass i told earlier.... View More...
smishr
Destiny doesn’t control us but yes luck is decided by god and if something is not good for you god may stop you but for the options he will never do so. So its in your hand what you want to be.... View More...
anvaro
Yes a bit. Everything is pre-determined. You will get what you deserve. You can only change a bit. ... View More...
alex
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. I have changed my destiny myself. So I believe this. ... View More...
jannie
No a person is not in control of the destiny. It can be changed. It is volatile. ... View More...
annas
I think one is not in control. Ask why? Ever heard or read about Adolf Hitler? Or Beethoven ? or Stephen Hawkings ? If they have left everything on destiny they would not have become what they are now.... View More...
idac
Practically there is nothing called destiny. It is totally we who are going to make our own future. Hard work = better future. Where is destiny?... View More...
baa
Yes. A person is in control of his/her destiny. Everything is fixed already. I believe destiny is already written. ... View More...
JJ
If you are a man you ought to control your destiny.If you are a women.You'd better make your husband to control his destiny.A good family is women's focal point.... View More...
howl
Everybody wants to control their destinys.Somebody did.Somebody didn't.But at first,you must know the standard of your success.... View More...
fengl
Yes. One is in control of his/her destiny. You may practice before the race harder and harder, but if the win is not in your destiny you wont be able to win that. I have experienced it.... View More...
husaain
Yes a bit. After all destiny is created by Allah and what he creates definitely will control us.... View More...
malu
There is nothing like destiny. But this is what I think. I have heard others having strong belief in destiny. I don’t have because I could have been anything I wished for.... View More...
anc
There is nothing like destiny as there is no one who is writing our destiny. No one knows what we are going to do so how our destiny can be written and if its written by someone else then we can always prove that person wrong.... View More...
mchi
Destiny is definitely fixed before. And is done by god so cannot be changed he can change it if he sees that you are trying hard for something it will change only if he decides you can only try for that.... View More...
jessi
Destiny doesn’t controls us as in my case i made those mistakes willingly and so i am here. If my kids could ignore they will be something else. Destiny is not predefined its what we make.... View More...
jose
Destiny doesn’t control us. No one knows what is going to happen in future and they make decision according to the way they want their future to be. And they are successful in that too.... View More...
kelly
Destiny is in our hands. It is decided for those who quit trying and they become what is written for them. But for the one who always keep trying can always change and become what they want to become.... View More...
brian
Destiny does not control us. Though it may be decided but we can always change it from our hard work and our will to do so. If we are not ready to change it then it will be according to the one as decided.... View More...
leew
Destiny does not control us. As no one is there who is writing our destiny. So its always what you make your life and its never that any other has decided.... View More...
hjguty
No. Destiny is something which is responsible for creating balance in nature. For sure it doesn't control us. We are responsible for ourselves. No other thing. ... View More...
scott
yes I believe so. your actions, deeds and decision leads to your future and your destiny.... View More...
Robert
Sure we are all in control of our destiny and we make our future... View More...
Scarlet
It depends on if h/she will try hard enough. One 's own will sometimes can't be stronger than the affect of the other factors in one's life. Once it's not stronger, his/her life will be controlled by other factors ... View More...
Ashley
somehow. we can be in control of our decision, and that leads to the future.... View More...
Amy
i think one's destiny does not fully under their control. destiny is fate, is something mean to be, and it can not be fully control by human.... View More...
bakarif
NO. NOT AT ALL. Destiny has nothing to do with. There was time when i was not selected in team for 4 consecutive years. Some said that it was not in your destiny but i tried and tried and finally made my destiny changed.... View More...
ahaq
Destiny does control us. Its all decided by the one sitting in the skies and who is seeing our every activity. Its all set by him for us to do and we cannot change it.... View More...
squadir
Destiny will control us if we are follower of someone. Because at that time he will be making us and it will not be something decided by us. If we will be ruler we will make our own destiny.... View More...
danielb
Destiny is made by us. What you decide and work for makes you destiny. Someone doesn’t work because he knows he had to be that only.... View More...
marco
Destiny doesn’t control us. It can never do so because it is never fixed. No one can decide what i am going to become. Its always our decision which makes us and our destiny.... View More...
yanet
Destiny does control us. Our future is prewritten and even if we choose some other way which is not in our destiny but still somehow we will be coming back to the way decided for us. You need to repair your set in accordance with the set up.... View More...
evan
Destiny doesn’t controls us. No one knows what he will become in future. Its his decision which matters in making his future or his destiny. So always make wise decision.... View More...
suril
There is nothing like destiny. If i hadn’t done all this then i would have been someone like the regular students. Its was my decision to do this and thus it makes me different from others. I made my destiny from my decision.... View More...
sella
Destiny will control you if you will want it to control you. If you will never try to change it. It will never change but if you want to change it you can do so with your hard work and determination to change your destiny.... View More...
elton
Destiny doesn’t controls us. This is a word for those who cannot work for themselves and then they think that it was their destiny that they are like that.... View More...
hlee
I don’t believe in word destiny. I am an engineer because i wanted to be engineer and its not that i was supposed to be engineer.... View More...
ochbat
Destiny does not control us. Working for something you want will always get you that thing. What matters is your dedication to get this.... View More...
Kaos King
i think so. you are in control of your own destiny. you can change your life!... View More...
Eric
not fully. their higher power and destiny for any one i think. something is born with, someone maybe born as to be a president. some bit fate can not be changed.... View More...
Judy
somehow control, but not all and not everything i think. you can control what you do in daily life, what to say, who to meet. but you can not control what come to your life, good or bad. who come to your life, how people treats you. these are the things y... View More...
ez321
Half yes, half no. You are born with what you are born with. Nothing you do can change that. Where you go from there, however, is your call. It may not be possible to reach the stars that other people were born much closer to, but trying to life your life... View More...
Mike
Yes totally. Every thought and every feeling reflects what a person experiences in daily life. Therefore every Experience can be guided by specific Thoughts and Feelings and create the Destiny desired.... View More...
Srinu
No, God will decide ... View More...
PrasadRay
Yes. A person in control of his destiny. He can decide his destiny by choosing Jesus.... View More...
fransico
Destiny doesn’t control you. You always get what you are working for. You must be a hard worker to get what you want otherwise you will get what others want you to get and that thing is not always good.... View More...
ronie
A person is not in a control of destiny in some cases. But in most of the cases people can’t escape what is written in their fate. May be in my case i am being controlled by my destiny but i am working hard to change my destiny and be a national level pla... View More...
vicent
Destiny will control you if you want it to control you. If you want to control your destiny you can also do that. What is required for controlling you destiny is hard work. You will have to be more concentrated on what you want and not what you can get.... View More...
vitor
No, if you can work hard to get what you want and yes if you just sit and accept everything and work according to that. It depends on you how you let destiny to take control over you and your life. ... View More...
satrio
I believe in destiny but not actually think that it controls our life. Our life is in our control. ... View More...
Pisces
yea i think i am the person in control of my life. you can take no one to take control of your own life. be your own God.... View More...
rehan
Yes I believe in destiny and I think it controls. Everything is written from allah and no one has ability to change that. You have to work according to his wishes.... View More...
mickey
I think destiny exists but it is just a part of our life. I think one can change it in his desired directions.... View More...
alej
I don’t believe in destiny. Neither my students nor I am knowing what they are going to become in future. Its according to the decision they choose that means they are going to decide their own destiny.... View More...
dendy
I don’t think so that destiny controls us. If by our trying, something changes in our life then its just a good luck otherwise in my case i was not able to change my profession or earn more than how much i am earning.... View More...
joshu
I may say that it controls us because i also tried for something big but luck didN't favoured me a lot. So i may say that was not written in my destiny. For me it was to be a designer and thus i am a designer.... View More...
zarim
There is nothing like destiny. At present if my kids will decide that they want to do business then they will be business men and if they say they want to study and get a job they will not be a business men. So nothing is predecided.... View More...
witaya
No a person is not in control of his destiny. Yes a thing called destiny do exists but certainly it is not everything. ... View More...
hmohd
Yes a bit. After all it is destiny who takes you here and there. You might change it but your destiny will the most powerful. ... View More...
guyg
No. A person comes empty handed in this world. If at that time he thinks of just sleeping he will not be having anything and if he works for himself he will earn and destiny will be changed according to work he does.... View More...
nico
Yes I believe in it. It’s a part of our life. It takes you. But your hard work can resist and take you wherever you want.... View More...
matth
Destiny always controls us because in my case even I tried hard I always got less than that so it means that only this much was decided for me. Thus I can say that destiny controls us at least in my case.... View More...
miod
No I don’t think a person is in control of his destiny. We have been reading from childhood that we can change our destiny with hard work.... View More...
yaro
Nothing is fixed in the world everything changes and so is our destiny with our every moves and action which we do daily. But for that you need to work. it doesn’t matter what you are choosing to become but you will have to work accordingly.... View More...
martino
I will say that it is fixed as i never had to face problem in becoming what i wanted to be so i think it was decided for me to be a banker. If someone faces too many problems in his work then that means its not made for him.... View More...
ashot
A person controls his destiny if he is a hard worker, if not the destiny will be controlling him. The power to change everything lies within us. But for that we need to use that power and its use should be in the correct way.... View More...
ferhat
In some cases, yes it controls you as there are people who try hard for something but they are not successful in it. On the other hand there are also people who have changed their whole life on their own. In this case they made their own destiny.... View More...
joef
Destiny is the decision made from above so cannot be changed. It was decided for me to help others as a social worker and so i am. And i am happy with what i am at present.... View More...
faruk
Yes I believe on destiny but not completely. All I know is labor never goes in vain. Output depends on your input. ... View More...
paolo
Destiny is something that is not fixed. It keeps on changing with your every action and decision. Just saying simple yes no may change your destiny completely. I wished for becoming a doctor. So I became a doctor. Otherwise if I had opted for something el... View More...
ilgar
Destiny is made by us and is not predefined. If you will not do work and just by sitting you will blame your destiny for your poorness then this is senseless. For making your destiny you will have to work because at the end you work will decide your desti... View More...
asoor
Yes, it was decided for me to be blind and I am blind. No one can ever change his destiny as it is not him who is planning his destiny but its god who is doing all things and planning for his destiny and going beyond his wish is something impossible.... View More...
ktiwari
Yes, its god decision. And thus a person is in control of his destiny. A person does not have power to change what god has decided for him but god does have that power. If someone life has changed completely then that is because god wanted it to change an... View More...
anilax
I don’t think that a person is in control of destiny. I would rather say that a person is himself responsible for his destiny. If Gandhi ji had not done so much for the country I don’t think our lives would have been what it is now. He woke up all Indians... View More...
aksh
A bit. But I don’t think destiny controls us. I was selected for this show that was my destiny just a bit. But after that it is not destiny which is going to help. Destiny will not come to save me if I perform poor. It will be my labor and talent. So labo... View More...
sriram
Yes you can never get more than what is written in your destiny. But this is also truth that for getting there you will have to work as just by sitting at home you cannot be a racer if you think me as an example. But it was decided for me to be an athlete... View More...
bali
I don’t think so. A person makes his own destiny. If it was fixed that whatever you do won’t affect your destiny then sitting on home would have made people billionaire and laborious people may have been the poorest people.... View More...
sameer
Yes destiny is decided by god. If he had not wished for me to be a hockey player, then irrespective of the no. Of tries i would have made to be a hockey player i know i won’t have been successful.... View More...
daniel
Unless you try for something you cant get it. Similarly lazy ones believe in it, those who don’t want to move. In order to want something you will have to try first. Destiny is just a part. It doesn’t control it.... View More...
alfon
Destiny is a coincidence. If you get it you are lucky if you don’t you will be considered unlucky. I believe in it. It’s a vital part of our lives.... View More...
tannah
No person is in control of his/her destiny. Your future is made by your labor. ... View More...
oner
No, a person is not in control of its destiny. I believe in it but not that much. You pay for what you do.... View More...
ager
I don’t believe in it. Destiny is nothing actually. All is what you make it.... View More...
ahabib
I may say yes in case if you are giving your 100 percent then you will get what is set for you. I mean to say you can't get more than what is decided already for you but if you want to get that much you need to give your 100 percent.... View More...
alhussain
You may say it if you don't get whatever you are working for. I think that is already decided as god is knowing how much you are going to work for. Destiny controls us up to an extent.... View More...
whabib
I believe in it. But if you continue following your dream with your strongest desire to achieve it no destiny and nothing can stop you from it.... View More...
mdal
No, your future is not decided by your destiny. It is decided by your deeds. Hard work changes impossible into the possible ones. Even the word impossible is made up of I m possible. What you need is hard work to break the word impossible in the later one... View More...
alib
Yes I believe in it. Destiny is a essential part of our lives. It takes you. You are driven by it.... View More...
timay
No I made all this and this is not because it was written in my destiny. If I had not tried to be at this level I should have been in a small place living a compromised life.... View More...
maria
I haven’t yet knew what exactly destiny is. We are responsible for our future. Focus on present and the future is yours. There is nothing called destiny.... View More...
benle
I may say yes. Thinking that I was supposed to be at this stage and not more that this was what my decided destiny. So I wasn’t able to be a little more successful than this. Yes we are controlled by our destiny.... View More...
ericchee
Yes I believe in destiny. It’s a part of our life. But why do people think that it controls us? It doesn’t. We are the makers of our own destiny. We control it.... View More...
spiro
Trusting much on destiny prevents you from putting efforts. I believe on it but I don’t think it controls our life. Its impractical. You are the creator.... View More...
jboxer
Yes, i strongly believe everything is pre planned from above i mean god. No can go beyond his planning however hard he tries. You may say its nothing like that but you will reaching at point decided for you no matter how.... View More...
sarahc
Not really. You can’t blame your destiny for what you are but yes sometimes it doesn’t matter how much hard you are working for anything, it just slips your hand and at that time you may say it was not made for you and thats the destiny... View More...
elena
Let me correct it. A person is not under the control of his/her destiny. Its the result of what he has been doing throughout his life. Or may be i should say they control their destiny.... ... View More...
johndavis
Destiny is for those who make it. For everyone the destiny may be decided and its always gods but the person has to work hard to achieve that. A person who only slept his whole life should blame his destiny for his present condition.... View More...
klord
I agree that if luck is bad then however hard you try you won’t succeed. But work and labour is always needed as you never know when your luck favours you. A person cannot leave everything on destiny and think all his good and bad as a part of that decid... View More...
ppatel
A lot. I believe in destiny. But as far as the control is concerned it is in our hands. If we think we can change it then we are right. The destiny is volatile. It keeps on changing in accordance with the efforts put in by you.... View More...
annah
We can change our destiny but sometimes we are helpless and have to leave everything on destiny and let the things be as they are going to happen. for changing our destiny we need chance to prove ourselves and earn money.... View More...
aruns
Yes, it was my destiny that i am like this and living a comprised life, but still i am happy. A person can never be what he want. Its what his destiny decides.... View More...
vijayp
May or may not be. Well you may call your final position your destiny or your labor.... View More...
babuh
No. We control our destiny. Its our labour and dedication that makes our tomorrow.... View More...
daddu
Yes I believe in it. It controls us. It controls what we have to do next. But to make it better is in our hands. So at any point you feel like disappointed you can work to improve that. And with determination you will be able to do that.... View More...
tinku
Destiny controls everything. It was in my destiny that I took birth in a poorer family. Nothing is possible without destiny.... View More...
param
I think whatever we do it’s the destiny. Destiny makes us to do every work. It is prewritten that what we have to do next. You wont be able to do extra than that. It controls us.... View More...
mbhaiya
Your success depends upon 90 percent labor and 10 percent destiny. So all you need to do is to take care of that 90 percent and this 10 percent will be taken care itself.... View More...
mamma
Destiny is not everything. It’s a part but once you decide firmly that yes I have to change my destiny then you can surely change it. One should believe in labor first and destiny later.... View More...
MrSkatingman44
yes... View More...
IG
Be good to others, be happy with what you do in your life, and take care of your health.... View More...
Michelle
Yes and no. There are parts of our nature & character that are innate, some aspects we can modify or change, others no. To me life is a combination of opportunities (destiny/karma?), ability to see oportunites for what they are (control). Yes, some peo... View More...
Leandro
I think the word destiny and control our contradictory. If I have a destiny then it will happen without my control. And if I’m in control then there is no destiny but what I make of my life. I believe we can make our break our lives. That we can direct... View More...
EL
I believe our choices can steer certain factors, but I also believe that there are some things that are meant to be.... View More...
SM
Some people are, others aren't. It's a frame of mind. If one has the intelligence to see one's actions as a choice & the courage to actively choose, that person is in control of her destiny.... View More...
dyeo
Yes I believe in it. But it is just a part. Hard work changes your destiny.... View More...
fmokh
It cannot be determined if the concerned person is in control of his/her destiny. No body know weather he/she will get to his destiny or not. Its all the god’s wish... View More...
daveadd
In my opinion destiny is not everything. Labor makes someone great. Of course there is destiny but its after hard labor.... View More...
sooi
Yes I believe in it. But personally I don’t think one is in control of it. It’s the courage of doing something which always changes destiny.... View More...
david
No. A person is no in control of his/her destiny. Because your hard work makes you a perfect and successful man. If someone depends upon his destiny only then he is not as successful as those who have done hard labor.... View More...
bmoon
One’s destiny is in his own control. I do believe in it but it I don’t think it controls us. I have seen many people changing their destiny by passion.... View More...
jcoles
Destiny sometimes acts like an obstacle in working harder. When we get failures, we quit saying it was not in our destiny. But actually a little more patience can create miracles.... View More...
mihoh
I believe in destiny but after all it is what we make it.... View More...
jsmi
I believe in it. But it doesn’t control anyone. You will be what you think. You are the creator of your own destiny.... View More...
ddai
Yes I do believe in destiny and it controls us too. Ultimately we have to reach there one day in our lives. Every day we reach a certain level in our destiny. Like today I was destined to give this interview. It’s a part of my destiny.... View More...
marie haddad
Sometimes they are in control of their destiny and this is when they defy or go against the flow of life, when they take a step despite all the negative signs. This usually ends up in chaos but I guess chaos is life's or destiny's way of correcting a pers... View More...
hamid
I do believe in destiny but it doesn’t controls any one’s life. To make our lives is upon us and our choices. We are responsible for everything.... View More...
dabebe
I don’t believe much in destiny. It doesn’t control any one. Everything is in our hands only.... View More...
rnorma
Up to a certain extent it controls us. Sometimes we may try and try but if that is not in destiny, its impossible to get that.... View More...
jkharju
Destiny is what you make it. I believe in it but not with the line that it controls someone. If one desires he can change his destiny.... View More...
crah
I believe in it. But certainly it doesn’t controls any one. You can get your destiny changed by yourself any time.... View More...
mdmasood
I do believe in destiny but I don’t think it controls anyone. It is not permanent. It keeps on changing.... View More...
davidm
Not at all. There is nothing called destiny. Everything is hard work.... View More...
nancy
I should say yes but to an extent but we can change it with our hard labor.... View More...
Jonah
Absolutely. I believe that every day we are presented with choices that can alter our fate in miniscule ways but a lifetime of these decisions, alters our entire course.... View More...
sofia
I don't think so. Personally I think God is in control and that he knows best.... View More...
leighnetta
Of course. Nothing in life is a mistake the key to changing your destiny is learning from what you have done wrong and trying to better yourself. You can be whoever you want to be and do whatever you want in your life you just need to have will power and ... View More...
DB
We are in control of our choices; we are in control of knowing what is true for us at any given moment. In that sense, we are the drivers but not necessarily are in possession of a map. We control movement- in whichever direction, forwards, sideways, or... View More...
ranand
Yes up to an extent he is on control of it. because with hard labor a bit of luck too is required.... View More...
vdevi
No a person is not in control of her destiny. I have heard that destiny changes with hard work.... View More...
navjot
No a person is not in destiny's control. Constant labor makes anything possible. ... View More...
vprasad
No a person is not in control of his/her destiny. If you put effort, the destiny is with you.... View More...
deobhushan
No a person is not in control of his destiny. Its upon us how and where we take our destiny. People change their destiny with the help of hard labor.... View More...
Joana F
You can change your destiny if you learn that you CAN control it and if you take action in it. If you keep obeying everything that is set up for you already, you are most likely to not control your destiny very much, but others will do it for you. "Destin... View More...
sunil
yes, because how you make yourself grow it will take you to the same direction. ... View More...
ria
Destiny is not always in control. Destiny will give you choices and options and its still you who will decide. ... View More...
rashmi
Yes I believe in destiny. Yes it controls us. Where ever we go, what-ever we do, the destiny is with us. ... View More...
harpreet
I believe in destiny but someone is not in control of it. It can be changed through hard work.... View More...
ppratya
No. Not at all. Destiny controls none. Everything is in our hands. ... View More...
tarique
No, a person is not in control of his/her destiny. I think it can be changed with lots and lots of hard work.... View More...
tcprasad
I believe in destiny but one is not in control of the destiny. I think hard work changes your destiny up to an extent.... View More...
Pearl
I believe a person is in control of their destiny because the choices we make create our future, It is possible to change our future by changing our beliefs and by letting go of what I call mass mind - other peoples beliefs. By becoming more intuitive and... View More...
Isaac
To some extent. From 1 to 10....7.5. Because we have what I think is unique to human....to power to choose consciously And with the internet now all the information is accessible....at least to give you a head start..... View More...
shivani
Yes, its the destiny which takes some one from one place to another place. Everything is written somewhere.... View More...
Ram
I don't think so, because sometimes you do something, thinking it will have a certain effect or it will cause something else, and it doesn't happen.... View More...
soumya
No I don't think so, because I have read that great people changing their destiny. By birth they had nothing but with their hard work and effort the achieved. ... View More...
jobandeep
Yes it has a full control over destiny because it takes you where-ever it wishes to.... View More...
abhaya
There is nothing like destiny. Everything is possible with effort.... View More...
prabha
No a person is not in control of her destiny. Destiny is what you make it. You have been provided a plat-form and then its up to you to decide what you have to do.... View More...
ashish
yes. depends they way how you look on. If you think you can change you can. if you think you cant u r right.... View More...
ankesh
Partially yes. If something good happens we beleive its nothing but the destiny.... View More...
vivek
Yes i believe. No one can change his destiny.... View More...
suket
Yes i believe in destiny. but i think one can change with the labour.... View More...
kamal
No.. i think a person can change his destiny through hard work... View More...
Ido
Yes. Every choice that you make effect you in the long run. Youll never know how a choice you made in the past will come back and haunt you.... View More...
coffee22
i think that every person has his\her own path written out for them for life. not in a way that interferes with their ability to have free will, but in a general way. i think a person can make choices to lead him to a certain point in life, so in a way we... View More...
keemuph
As myself, i am not in control, I am a military man but quit to become an engineer, got bored and now become an entrepreneur. Everything has a purpose why sometimes we don't achieve what we expect instead we become what we don't want to be. It depends on ... View More...
nvsunny87
No. Because no one knew what is their destiny, but only I can dream about it and work towards it to make it true.... View More...
hlgirl
Yes and no. We always have a choice. We can listen to our intuition, the voice that tells us the "right" thing to do. Or we can listen to our instinct, which tells us about the more pleasurable route. Now, whether the choice is already made, I don't k... View More...
Noel
A person is in control of their destiny in choosing to accept or reject God. God knows the future, but we do not know the future. Therefore we have to obey God and ask for his assistance in our everyday life and accept whatever may befall us in our dail... View More...
belladonna
To an extent. Life is what you make it to be.... View More...
Xaher
To a very large extent yes, a person is in control of his/her destiny. Our choices will define where we end up. Unexpected things will happen, what matters is how we react to them and how they affect our future course of action. ... View More...
Ron
It depends. If they are on a road of success I feel they are going to do whatever that's needed to achieve. Or if serendipity happens to merge you with someone else then the course ahead can be completely different than what you expected.... View More...
Krista
Yeah. Because you are given the opportunity and choices to get to the overall view you want in your life. ... View More...
Todd
No. Beacause nobody is in control of anything in their lives. God guides us and our destiny/fate is already laid out before us whether we know it or not.... View More...
Naziruddin
A person is not in control of destiny because it is God who controls our destiny. ... View More...
ashton l
yes and no there is such thing as being in the wrong place at the wrong time and bad things can happen or if u dont surround ur self with bad people and sistuations then u will be fine... View More...
Marlon
Yes, I believe that every person is in control of their own destiny. There is always an consequence to everything that you do.... View More...
Alfred
Yes a person is in control of his/her destiny or any aspect of his/her life for that matter. ... View More...
jamal
Your in control of your life you make your own decisions no one makes choices for you. You make your own life's path.... View More...
JeremyB
I feel you destiny is already set, you just chose your path on how you get there.... View More...
Walt Davidson
I believe a person is ultimately in control of their destiny, but I also believe that God may guide us and make a path for us to follow. Whether or not we choose to follow that path is our choice.... View More...
Mrs B
Yes! I believe what you think and talk about comes back to you. You think your a loser, stupid, etc others will think you are also. If you think and visulize the life you want to lead it will come to you. Not poof, you got a new life, but things have a w... View More...
Dan
You are in control of your destiny because you make your destiny.... View More...
Ale18
To a certain degree...life might put you in different circumstances, but at the end it is you who decide which way to go. We make our own CHOICES.... View More...
oowais
every individual is in control of his/her own destiny. yes, the pages of our lives have been written already and the ink has dried, but that does not mean we just live our lives without taking control, or rather by grabbing the bull by the horns.... View More...
HighFlyingDutchman
We can make choices but we cant change the results.... View More...
Reshma
I think that a person is in control of a part of his/her destiny. You think and make choices by yourself, but God is the one that knows exactly what will happen to you and when.... View More...
hiba
to some degree, it helps if the person is clear minded. there are always choices, but also choices are limited by nodes of relationships with other entities. so it is a partial freedom.... View More...
rosa montenegro
to an extent, stuff happens you don't expect, often terrible things--you have tto work though your feelings and eventually make the best of what has been dealt to you.... View More...
Glenn Montenegro
In a way you can control your destiny but only to a certain point, because you cant tell whats in the future. ... View More...
dolphins
i don't know . ... View More...
neil.allison@gmail.com
We are the result of a mysterious mix of our decisions, our physical, chemically-based bodies, genetic makeup, and our environment. We cannot force our will on the world, and the world cannot force itself completely on us.... View More...
corsi77@earthlink.net
Yes and no. Yes, when the key decision on one's destiny after death, is kind of important. No, when one's life is wrapped up in the knowledge of an all powerful God who loves me, then I know that my desire to control my destiny is NOT the best approach. ... View More...
Sarah Schneider
A person comes in with a mission, a light and truth they must share with the world. We do not have choice about this It is the definition of who we are. Yet we have absolute choice about how to accomplish that mission. We can choose scenic paths or are... View More...
Mustafa
Every person can influence his destiny. By being on the right side of morality and doing the right things even the controller of destiny will be forced to do right to you... View More...
Elohiym's
God calls heaven and earth as witnesses today against us, that He has set before us life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that we and our descendants may live.... View More...
manvir
In the beginning of time there was 1 Universal Source. Each soul is a droplet of Divine Love upon this human journey. If we are of God then we surely have a Creative Force. We are creating our own realities every day, and Divine Energy manifests itself in... View More...
Connie
To a degree it is. There are so many things that can be done to make things go as well as possible but there are lots of things that can throw obstacles in your path. But I do believe you can work around or through those obstacles.... View More...
Mr. Insurance
Destiny is decided by god - this, I strongly believe. But that does not mean that one should not try to fix his destiny. Many times it is beyond human control. One can try to control, but have faith in god. And try to do your best to contrlo your destiny.... View More...
SuriDurai
The answer to this question is both yes and no. Before I confuse you any further let me explain the whys and why nots. http://suri-durai.sulekha.com/blog/post/2007/05/the-disciple-answers-the-ninth-question.htm ... View More...
George Sanchez
God is love and so he gave or created humans with free will. Man can think reasons and make decisions. God does not predestinate what course of action we choose to take. If we allow bad thoughts to influence our course of action, the consequences will ult... View More...
Brent Curtis
Yes, we all control our destiny. We actively choose what we do and don't do. Our morals and God direct us, but in the end we decide the outcome.... View More...
doublea
I think a person makes his/her own destiny from the choices and decisions made at every stage.... View More...
commie
It can be argued that all the choices we make are based on past decisions, actions, etc, and therefore even if we rewound time we would make the same decisions and therefore would have a fate. If you have fate you can say you don’t really have free wil... View More...
Naseema
DESTINY CANNOT BE CONTROLED . IT IS THE CREATOR WHO CONTROLES . IT CAN BE CHANGED BY OUR GOOD AND BAD DEEDS . FOR EXAMPLE IF WE HARM SOME ONE WE WILL BE SURELY HARMED . IF WE LIKE OURSELF THE MOST OUR HEALTH WILL GO , IF WE LOVE OUR KIDS SOME THING WIL... View More...
DD
A person is in control of his destiny except death. ... View More...
y2jcapricorn
Well it depends on nature of a person, some people keep control in his/her destiny while some can't keep control in his/her destiny. the reason why they can control is that they have an optimistic aproach while those who don't keep control on his/her dest... View More...
Demon Monk
Destiny again is a device of control. There is no destiny, even when it really really looks like there is. Paths may be opened before us, but we choose the journey we take, and we're each responsible for the lives we lead. Free will is always our true rea... View More...
vrs
Before when I was not believer I used to say it's luck that makes our destiny. Over the period of two years I changed my mind I think we have to try our best but rest is upto our Creator(GOD).... View More...
ksulkar
What is destiny? Does anyone know? I think I have been in control so far. When I look back on life, I think,"I did good!" I have few goals in my life and I am working on it. I think it is an excuse people use to blame their own faults and failures.... View More...
sonp@msn.com
We feel we are in control. That is just an illusion. We may control only 5% of our destiny. Life is so complex and depends on so many variables, it is almost impossible for a human being to control these variables. Hence we can not be in control of our de... View More...
Riaz Syed
You have some control, some of the time. Both your actions and and your fate contribute to your destiny. These two are intermingled I believe. On the one hand if you are born a blind person into slavery during tyrannical times - there are good chances y... View More...